Ephesians 1:3-6 | February 8th

Sermon Overview
Understanding Your Identity in Christ: What It Means to Be Blessed in Heavenly Places

Have you ever wondered who you really are as a believer? The book of Ephesians provides one of the most profound explanations of our identity in Christ, revealing truths that can transform how we live each day. In Ephesians 1:3-6, we discover four essential aspects of knowing our Heavenly Father that anchor our understanding of life in Christ.

Why Knowing Your Identity Matters


The ancient philosopher Epictetus once said, "Know first who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly." This perfectly captures the structure of Ephesians - the first three chapters establish who we are in Christ, while the last three chapters show us how to live accordingly.
When we don't understand our true identity in Christ, we become like "feral children" - still living according to the patterns and imprinting of the world system rather than our true nature as children of God. But when we grasp who our Heavenly Father is and what He has done for us, we can live on an entirely different plane.

Know Your Father's Provision: Every Spiritual Blessing

Ephesians 1:3 declares that God "has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ." This phrase "heavenly places" appears five times in Ephesians and nowhere else in Scripture, pointing to a crucial truth: everything visible and physical is a result of something invisible and spiritual.

What Does "Every Spiritual Blessing" Mean?

Think of it like family insurance coverage. When someone in your family has health insurance, everyone under that policy is covered. Similarly, when we're "in Christ," we're covered by all that Christ has. We share in His spiritual benefits and blessings.
This means that in the spiritual realm, we have everything we need for victory. As Paul wrote, "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me" - not referring to becoming a professional athlete, but to accomplishing everything God has called us to do spiritually.

Living in Spiritual Reality

Many believers feel defeated because they're trying to address physical problems without acknowledging the spiritual realm. Until we understand that we have access to every spiritual blessing in heavenly places, we'll continue trying to pull ourselves up by our bootstraps instead of drawing on God's supernatural provision.

Know Your Father's Plan: Chosen and Predestined

Ephesians 1:4-5 tells us that God "chose us in Him before the foundation of the world" and "predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ." This raises important questions about predestination that many struggle with today.

Understanding Biblical Predestination

The word "predestined" means "to determine beforehand." But what exactly did God determine? He didn't pick out specific individuals from eternity past while rejecting others. Instead, God predestined that the Church - all those who would trust in Christ - would be holy and blameless and adopted as His children.
This is corporate predestination, not individual predestination. God decided that He would bless the Church, but He gave everyone the opportunity to become part of that Church through faith in Christ.

God's Heart for All People

Scripture makes clear that God desires all people to be saved (1 Timothy 2:3-4) and that Christ draws all people to Himself (John 12:32). God has not predestined anyone to be permanently lost. His invitation is genuine: "Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28).

Know Your Father's Purpose: Holy and Blameless Living

God chose us "that we would be holy and blameless before Him" (Ephesians 1:4). This describes both our position in Christ and our practical calling.

Positional vs. Practical Holiness

Positionally, we are already holy and blameless because we share Christ's identity. When the Father looks at believers, He sees us "in Christ" and therefore sees Christ's righteousness.
Practically, God calls us to live out this holiness. To be "holy" means to be separate - set apart for God's special use, like fine china reserved for special occasions. We're called to separate ourselves from worldly thinking and align our thoughts with God's thoughts through studying His Word.

What Does It Mean to Be Blameless?

Being blameless doesn't mean being sinless. Rather, it means handling our sin properly when it occurs. When the Holy Spirit convicts us of wrongdoing, we confess it, seek forgiveness, and make things right when possible. We're not sinless, but we are blameless because we deal appropriately with our failures.

Know Your Father's Motivation: Love and Grace

Everything God does for us flows from His love and the "kind intention of His will" (Ephesians 1:5-6). His motivation is always good, gracious, and merciful. We are blessed "in the Beloved" - referring to Jesus Christ, in whom the Father is well pleased.
Just as the Father declared Jesus to be His "beloved Son" at His baptism and transfiguration, we too are beloved children when we're in Christ. We're covered by the same love and acceptance that the Father has for His Son.

Life Application

This week, challenge yourself to live from your true identity in Christ rather than from the world's definition of who you are. Remember that you have access to every spiritual blessing in heavenly places. When you face difficulties, address them first in the spiritual realm through prayer, seeking God's wisdom and strength rather than relying solely on your own efforts.
Practice being "holy" by separating your thinking from worldly patterns and aligning it with God's truth through Scripture study. When you sin, practice being "blameless" by quickly confessing, seeking forgiveness, and making things right.
Ask yourself these questions:
  • Am I trying to handle my challenges in my own strength, or am I drawing on the spiritual blessings available to me in Christ?
  • Do I truly believe that God's motivation toward me is always love and kindness, even when life is difficult?
  • How can I better live out my identity as God's beloved child this week?
  • What areas of my thinking need to be separated from worldly patterns and aligned with God's truth?
Day 1: Knowing Your True Identity
Devotional
Have you ever felt like you're living someone else's life? Like you're wearing clothes that don't quite fit? Many of us struggle with identity confusion, trying to find ourselves in our careers, relationships, or achievements. But there's a deeper truth waiting to be discovered. Just as a child naturally reflects their family's characteristics and enjoys their family's benefits, when we place our faith in Christ, we become part of God's family with all the privileges that entails. Yet too often, we live like spiritual orphans, unaware of our true heritage. The problem isn't that God hasn't provided for us - it's that we don't know who we are. When we're unclear about our identity in Christ, we default to the world's definitions of success, worth, and purpose. We live according to patterns that were never meant for God's children. Think about it this way: if you discovered you were actually royalty, wouldn't that change how you carried yourself? Wouldn't it affect your decisions, your confidence, your entire outlook on life? That's exactly what happens when we truly understand our identity as God's beloved children. The foundation of victorious Christian living isn't trying harder or doing more - it's knowing who you already are in Christ. When this truth settles deep in your heart, everything changes. You stop striving for acceptance because you're already accepted. You stop fighting for significance because you're already significant. You begin to live from victory rather than fighting for victory.

Bible Verse
'For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will.' - Ephesians 1:4-5

Reflection Question
In what areas of your life are you still trying to prove your worth instead of living from the security of knowing you're God's beloved child?

Quote
"Know first who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly. Well, that's exactly what the book of Ephesians, the letter of Ephesians, is all about. Know who you are first, first three chapters, and then adorn yourself accordingly."

Prayer
Father, help me to truly understand and embrace my identity as Your beloved child. When the world tries to define me by my performance or circumstances, remind me that my worth comes from being chosen and loved by You. Help me to live from this truth rather than striving for it.
Day 2: Access to Heavenly Resources
Devotional
Imagine having access to unlimited resources but living like you're broke. That's the reality for many believers who don't understand what's available to them in Christ. When you became a Christian, you didn't just get a ticket to heaven - you gained access to every spiritual blessing in heavenly places. Think of it like being added to the ultimate family insurance plan where Jesus is the primary holder, and you're fully covered for everything you need spiritually. Yet many of us try to handle life's challenges in our own strength. We face anxiety, fear, and frustration while having access to supernatural peace. We struggle with feelings of inadequacy while possessing the very righteousness of Christ. We battle loneliness while being permanently connected to the God of the universe. The issue isn't that God hasn't provided - it's that we're not accessing what's already ours. We're trying to solve spiritual problems with natural solutions, addressing symptoms instead of root causes. Every challenge you face has a spiritual dimension. Your marriage struggles, financial stress, parenting concerns, and personal battles all have spiritual roots that require spiritual solutions. But here's the good news: you have access to everything you need through Christ. This doesn't mean life becomes easy, but it does mean you're not facing it alone or unprepared. You have divine wisdom for decisions, supernatural strength for difficulties, and heavenly peace for anxious moments. The question isn't whether these resources are available - it's whether you'll access them through faith and prayer.

Bible Verse
'Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ.' - Ephesians 1:3

Reflection Question
What current challenge in your life are you trying to handle in your own strength instead of accessing God's spiritual resources?

Quote
"This is similar to a family member sharing in the medical insurance benefits of the head of the household. So the moment we place our faith, our trust in Christ, all that is Christ has now been given to us that we would know victory in this life in representing him."

Prayer
Lord, forgive me for trying to live the Christian life in my own strength. Open my eyes to see the spiritual resources You've already provided. Help me to access Your wisdom, strength, and peace in every situation I face today.
Day 3: Chosen for a Purpose
Devotional
Have you ever wondered why God chose you? Not because you were the most qualified, the most talented, or the most deserving. God's choice wasn't based on your performance - it was based on His love and His purpose. Before the world was even created, God had you in mind. He chose the Church - all who would believe in Christ - to be holy and blameless. This isn't about individual predestination that excludes some people; it's about God's corporate decision to bless all who would trust in His Son. Being chosen means you're set apart for something special. Just like fine china is set apart for special occasions, you've been set apart to represent Christ in your daily life. This calling to holiness isn't about perfection - it's about purpose. Holiness means thinking God's thoughts after Him, separating yourself from worldly thinking patterns, and aligning your mind with His truth. It's about being different not for the sake of being different, but for the sake of accurately representing your Heavenly Father. You weren't chosen because you had it all together. You were chosen so that God could work through your life to display His grace and power. Your weaknesses aren't disqualifications - they're opportunities for God to show His strength. When you understand that you're chosen for a purpose, it changes everything. Your work becomes ministry. Your relationships become opportunities to show God's love. Your struggles become platforms for God's grace. You're not just living your life - you're fulfilling a divine calling.

Bible Verse
'The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.' - 2 Peter 3:9

Reflection Question
How does knowing you're chosen by God for a specific purpose change the way you view your current circumstances and relationships?

Quote
"God desires that we would be like that piece of china that is set apart for special use. What use? To represent Christ in our daily lives."

Prayer
Thank You, God, for choosing me not because of my qualifications but because of Your love. Help me to live worthy of this calling, representing You well in every area of my life. Use my strengths and weaknesses alike to display Your glory.
Day 4: Blameless Through Grace
Devotional
One of the biggest misconceptions in Christianity is that being blameless means being sinless. If that were true, none of us would qualify. But God's definition of blameless is beautifully different - it's about how we handle our sin, not about never sinning. When you mess up (and you will), you have a choice. You can hide, make excuses, or blame others - which keeps you trapped in guilt and shame. Or you can handle your sin properly through confession, seeking forgiveness, and making things right where possible. This is the difference between being sinful and being blameless. A blameless person isn't someone who never fails; they're someone who deals honestly and quickly with their failures. They don't let pride keep them from admitting wrong. They don't let fear keep them from seeking forgiveness. Think about a child who breaks something valuable. They can either hide the broken pieces and hope no one notices, or they can immediately run to their parent, confess what happened, and ask for help. The parent's response to the honest child is very different from their response to the one who tries to cover up. God isn't looking for perfect children - He's looking for honest ones. When you confess your sin, you're not informing God of something He didn't know. You're agreeing with Him about your need for grace and positioning yourself to receive His forgiveness and cleansing. This understanding frees you from the exhausting burden of trying to appear perfect. You can be real about your struggles while still pursuing growth. You can admit your mistakes while still maintaining your identity as God's beloved child.

Bible Verse
'If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.' - 1 John 1:9

Reflection Question
Is there an area of sin in your life that you've been trying to hide instead of bringing it honestly before God for forgiveness and healing?

Quote
"Blamelessness does not mean sinless. We can be sinful, but blameless. How? By handling our sin properly. By confessing and seeking forgiveness and providing restitution."

Prayer
Father, thank You that I don't have to be perfect to be blameless in Your sight. Give me the courage to be honest about my failures and the wisdom to handle my sin properly. Help me to quickly confess and seek forgiveness rather than hiding in shame.
Day 5: Beloved in the Beloved
Devotional
The ultimate truth about your identity isn't found in what you do, but in whose you are. You are beloved in the Beloved - accepted in Christ with the same love the Father has for His Son. This isn't just a nice theological concept; it's the foundation of your entire existence. When God looks at you, He doesn't see your failures, your struggles, or your imperfections first. He sees you through Christ, covered by His righteousness, accepted with the same delight He has for Jesus. This love isn't based on your performance. You can't earn more of it by being good, and you can't lose it by messing up. It's not conditional love that fluctuates with your behavior - it's covenant love that remains constant regardless of your circumstances. When this truth really sinks in, it transforms how you approach everything. You stop trying to earn God's approval because you already have it. You stop fearing His rejection because it's impossible. You stop performing for love because you're already swimming in it. This security allows you to take risks, to be vulnerable, to admit weaknesses, and to pursue growth without fear. You can face challenges knowing that your worth isn't on the line. You can serve others from overflow rather than emptiness. God's motivation in everything He does is love and grace. He chose you in love, He saved you by grace, and He continues to work in your life from the same heart of love. You are not a project to be fixed - you are a child to be loved. Living from this reality changes everything. When you know you're beloved, you can love others freely. When you know you're accepted, you can accept others graciously. When you know you're secure in God's love, you can face anything life brings your way.

Bible Verse
'This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.' - 1 John 4:9

Reflection Question
How would your daily interactions and decisions change if you truly believed and lived from the reality that you are as beloved by God as Jesus is?

Quote
"God is good all the time. God is good. He's kind, he's gracious, he's merciful, to the praise of the glory of his grace which he freely bestowed on us in the Beloved."

Prayer
Heavenly Father, help this truth sink deep into my heart - that I am beloved in the Beloved, accepted with the same love You have for Jesus. Let this security transform how I see myself and how I relate to others. May I live from this love rather than trying to earn it.