Guest Speaker Sunday | August 23rd

Message Overview
How to Handle Anxiety and Worry: What the Bible Says

Worry is one of the most common struggles people face, and it touches every area of life. Whether it's finances, health, relationships, or the future, anxiety has a way of consuming our thoughts. Matthew 6:25-34 speaks directly to this struggle and offers a clear, practical path forward.

Why Do We Worry So Much?

Medical doctors have estimated that over 25% of their patient load consists of what they call the "worried well." These are people who are not physically sick but are consumed by anxiety. From the breakfast table to bedtime, worry has become a constant companion for many people.

One panel of psychologists studied worry and found that:

  • 40% of our worries are over things that will never happen
  • 30% are over things in the past
  • 22% are over petty, trivial matters
  • Only 8% of what we worry about has any real significance

Most of the time, we get stuck on the small things, the sand in our shoes, while the bigger picture goes unnoticed.

What Does the Bible Mean by "Worry"?

In Matthew 6:25, Jesus says: "Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?" - Matthew 6:25

The word translated as "worry" means a distracting care. It is the same word used in Philippians 4:6: "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God." - Philippians 4:6

So biblically, worry is a distracting care that results from assuming a responsibility that is not yours. God is not saying to ignore your health, your finances, or your job. He is saying do not let those things become a consuming, distracting care, because those are ultimately His responsibility.

Is Worrying a Sin?

Matthew 6:25 is not a suggestion. It is a command. The actual meaning behind the phrase "do not worry" is: if you are not worrying, don't start. And if you are, stop it right now.

That means worry is disobedience to a direct command from God. It is just as much a sin as stealing or lust, because God has clearly said not to do it. We often try to justify our worrying, but the Bible leaves no room for that justification.

Two Key Observations Jesus Makes About Worry

1. There Is More to Life Than What You Are Worrying About

Jesus points out that life is more than food, water, and clothing. If God provides the air we breathe, the ground we walk on, and the right temperature to live in, He will certainly take care of what we are worried about.

Consider the Israelites in the wilderness. Nearly 3 million people needed food, water, and shelter every single day. God parted the Red Sea, provided manna, and sustained them through it all. The God who handled all of that is the same God who is aware of your situation today.

2. If God Takes Care of His Creation, He Will Take Care of His Children

Jesus uses two illustrations to make this point.

Look up at the birds. "Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?" - Matthew 6:26

Birds do not plant crops or store food, yet God feeds them. And God's relationship with you is not simply Creator to creation. You are His child. If He takes care of all those birds up there, He will take care of all of us down here.

Look down at the lilies. "Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these." - Matthew 6:28-29

Solomon was the most gloriously dressed king Israel ever had. Yet the flowers of the field surpassed his splendor. And those same flowers were cut down and thrown into an oven to bake bread. If God clothes something so temporary with such beauty, how much more will He clothe and care for you?

Three Conclusions Jesus Draws About How to Stop Worrying

Conclusion 1: Live Above the Level of Unbelievers

"Therefore do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things." - Matthew 6:31-32

Unbelievers have every reason to worry. But you have a Father who has absolute, intimate knowledge of every need you have. He knows what is in your bank account. He knows the state of your health now and five years from now. He knows the economy, your job, your family. It is never a guessing game with Him. Because of that, you can live above the level of anxiety that marks those without faith.

Conclusion 2: Concern Yourself With the Father's Business and He Will Concern Himself With Yours

"But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." - Matthew 6:33

If you are going to direct your energy somewhere, direct it toward a consistent prayer life, studying Scripture, supporting your church, loving your neighbor, and helping those in need. When you make God's priorities your priorities, He takes care of everything else. Not 95% of your needs. Not 98%. All of them.

The Psalmist wrote: "I have been young, and now am old; yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his descendants begging bread." - Psalm 37:25

Conclusion 3: Live One Day at a Time

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble." - Matthew 6:34

One of the enemy's primary tactics is to get you to carry tomorrow's problems with only today's strength. God never promised to give you tomorrow's grace today. He gives you what you need for today, and tomorrow He will do the same.

A Gallup poll once studied 402 people who had all lived to at least 95 years of age. The one common factor in all their lives was a lack of anxiety, worry, and tension. Many of them said simply: we lived one day at a time.

As the saying goes, life by the yard is hard. By the inch, it's a cinch.

A Simple Agreement That Changes Everything

There is a true story of a woman whose husband raised 18 children with her, six of their own and twelve adopted. When her husband died suddenly, she was left to raise the youngest ones largely on her own. Yet she was known as someone with a worry-free life.

When a neighbor finally asked her why, she said: "Because some years ago, God and I made an agreement. If I do the work, He'll do the worry. And I have not had a worry since."

That is the invitation of Matthew 6. You do the work. Let God handle the worry.

Life Application

This week, identify one specific area of your life where worry has become a distracting care. Write it down. Then, in prayer, consciously hand that concern over to God and commit to seeking His kingdom first in that area rather than trying to carry the weight yourself. Each time the worry returns, remind yourself: this is His responsibility, not mine.

Ask yourself these questions as you reflect:

  • Am I treating worry as the sin the Bible says it is, or am I justifying it?
  • Am I seeking God's kingdom first, or am I letting anxiety about my circumstances take that place?
  • What would it look like for me to truly live one day at a time this week?
  • Am I giving God my obedience, or just my opinion about whether His commands are reasonable?

God is not asking you to be careless. He is asking you to trust that He is a Father who knows your needs, who keeps His promises, and who never sleeps. If He is up all night concerned about what concerns you, He sees no reason for you to lose yours.

If you are not worrying, don't start. And if you are, stop it right now.
Day 1: Worry Is Not Just a Bad Habit
Devotional
Most of us treat worry like an unavoidable part of life. We shrug it off, call it stress, and move on. But what if worry is more serious than we think? Jesus does not suggest that worry is simply unhelpful. He commands us not to do it. That means every time we give in to anxious thoughts, we are not just struggling emotionally. We are stepping outside of what God has asked of us. That might feel heavy at first, but here is the encouraging part: God does not give commands without also giving grace. He would not tell you to stop worrying if He had not already made a way for you to live without it. The command itself is an invitation to trust Him more deeply. Think about the areas of your life where worry feels most natural. Your finances. Your health. Your relationships. Your future. Jesus sees all of it, and He is not asking you to pretend those things do not matter. He is asking you to bring them to a Father who already knows every detail and cares deeply about each one. You are not alone in this. And you are not without help. The first step toward freedom from worry is simply recognizing it for what it is, and then choosing, one moment at a time, to trust God instead.

Bible Verse
"Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat, or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you shall put on." - Matthew 6:25

Reflection Question
If worry is an act of disobedience rather than just a personality trait, how does that change the way you respond to anxious thoughts?

Quote
"Worry is a distracting care resulting from assuming a responsibility that is not yours."

Prayer
Father, I confess that I have treated worry as normal when You have called me to something better. Help me to see it clearly and to choose trust over anxiety today. Amen.
Day 2: You Are Worth More Than the Birds
Devotional
Have you ever watched birds outside your window? They are not checking their bank accounts or losing sleep over tomorrow. They simply live, and somehow they are fed. Jesus uses this picture on purpose. He is not saying life has no real challenges. He is pointing to something bigger: the God who feeds every sparrow is the same God who calls you His child. If He provides for creatures with no eternal standing, how much more will He provide for you? This is not a vague, distant kind of care. God knows your specific situation. He knows what is in your account, what is weighing on your health, and what keeps you up at night. It is never a guessing game with Him. Sometimes worry creeps in because we feel unseen or forgotten. We wonder if God is paying attention. But the birds remind us that His attention never drifts. He is not scrambling to figure out your situation. He already knows, and He is already at work. You are not just known by God. You are valued by Him. Let that truth settle into the places where worry has taken root, and allow it to replace fear with a quiet, steady confidence in a Father who sees you completely.

Bible Verse
"Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?" - Matthew 6:26

Reflection Question
In what area of your life do you most struggle to believe that God truly sees and cares about your specific situation?

Quote
"If God takes care of all those birds up there, He'll take care of all of us birds down here."

Prayer
Lord, thank You for knowing every detail of my life. Help me to rest in the truth that I am seen, known, and valued by You. Amen.
Day 3: Worry Cannot Change a Thing
Devotional
Here is a humbling truth: all the worrying in the world has never solved a single problem. It has never added a day to anyone's life, never paid a bill, and never healed a relationship. Worry feels productive, but it produces nothing. Research backs this up in a striking way. Roughly 40 percent of what we worry about never happens. Another 30 percent involves things already in the past that we cannot change. Most of what consumes our mental energy is either imaginary or irrelevable. Only a small fraction of our worries actually matter. Jesus makes the same point when He asks who among us can add even the smallest measure to our lives by worrying. The answer is no one. Not one inch. This is actually freeing news. If worry cannot change your circumstances, then releasing it costs you nothing except the burden itself. You are not giving up control when you stop worrying. You never had that control to begin with. What you are doing is handing responsibility back to the One who actually holds it. Today, instead of rehearsing what could go wrong, try naming what God has already done right in your life. Gratitude and worry cannot occupy the same space for long. Choose gratitude, and watch worry begin to lose its grip.

Bible Verse
"Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?" - Matthew 6:27

Reflection Question
When you consider how little your worry has actually changed in the past, what does that reveal about where you are placing your trust?

Quote
"40% of our worries are over things that will never happen. 30% of our worries are over things in the past, 22% of our worries are over petty trivials, meaning only 8% of everything we worry about has any significance."

Prayer
God, I release the illusion that my worry is doing something useful. Teach me to trust You with the outcomes I cannot control. Amen.
Day 4: Seek First, and Watch What Follows
Devotional
There is a simple but powerful principle tucked inside Matthew 6. When you make God's priorities your priorities, He takes responsibility for everything else. Jesus puts it plainly: seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. That is not a formula for getting what you want. It is an invitation to reorder your life around what matters most, and to trust that a faithful Father will handle the rest. What does seeking first look like in practice? It looks like a consistent prayer life. It looks like opening your Bible before you open your worries. It looks like generosity, serving others, and choosing love even when it is inconvenient. These are not burdens. They are the very things that quiet anxiety and replace it with peace. When we are consumed with our own needs, worry grows. But when we turn our attention toward God and toward others, something shifts. We begin to see that we are part of a bigger story, one that God is writing with great care and intention. You do not have to carry the weight of your future. Concern yourself with your Father's business today, and trust that He is already concerning Himself with yours.

Bible Verse
"But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." - Matthew 6:33

Reflection Question
What would it look like practically for you to seek God's kingdom first today, before addressing the things that are causing you the most anxiety?

Quote
"If you concern yourself with that Father's business, He'll concern Himself with yours."

Prayer
Father, help me to put Your priorities above my own concerns today. I trust that as I seek You first, You will faithfully provide everything I need. Amen.
Day 5: One Day at a Time Is Enough
Devotional
God does not give you tomorrow's grace today. He gives you today's grace for today. That is not a limitation. It is a gift. Jesus closes His teaching on worry with a simple and practical word: sufficient for the day are the problems of the day. In other words, stop borrowing trouble from tomorrow. The grace you need for next week will be there next week. Right now, you only need what is required for today, and that has already been provided. Studies of people who live long, healthy lives consistently point to one common thread: they are not anxious about the future. They have learned to live fully in the present, trusting that each day brings what it needs and nothing more is required of them. God is not sleeping on your situation. He is already awake, already aware, and already working. If He is handling it, there is no reason for you to lose rest over it. This is the invitation at the end of a week of reflection on worry. Not a five-step plan, but a simple daily decision. Will you give God your obedience or your opinion? Will you trust that today's grace is enough, and that tomorrow's will come when tomorrow does? You do not have to figure it all out. Just take today. That is enough.

Bible Verse
"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble." - Matthew 6:34

Reflection Question
What specific worry about the future are you carrying today that you could choose to release, trusting that God's grace will meet you when that moment actually arrives?

Quote
"Life by the yard is hard by the inch, it's a cinch."

Prayer
Lord, help me to live fully in today and to trust You with tomorrow. Thank You that Your grace is always sufficient and always on time. Amen.